Dear Women:
Hope you are well.
If you and your partner are not happy in your relationship, it's important to get "shifting" results in your dynamic . . . and fast. The longer you wait, the longer your relational machine's engine gets familiar with the frictional "gear and pace" in which you are driving.
Get your relationship oiled at San Diego Therapy.
You don't want to turn into nags and you don't want to build inner resentment. You don't want him cheating and you don't want to break up.
You are stuck in a rut.
So what do you do? Especially in the event that "he" doesn't want to go to therapy? Nag him into going to see (most likely) a woman (no offense to us) who talks and thinks like a woman so that you can feel valued and heard? Don't get me wrong. I'm a woman too and it is important to feel valued and heard!! I'm not dissing our gender.
Putting this concept aside for a moment, tenets from the book Men are from Mars Women are from Venus, written by John Gray didn't come from no-where. Learn how to speak the language of a man by utilizing logical concepts that also embody the feminine. It's not about separating the genders . . .it's about spiritually transcending social classifications by using c0ncepts from the universal language of math.
At San Diego Therapy, you will learn how to base your relationship in logical mathematical principles that are also rooted in biological fractal concepts and apply them to your dynamic whatever the content of frictional discord.
It's time to stop words falling on deaf ears and it's time to stop recycled cyclical patterns that don't transform your relationship.
Tired of the same old same old. Don't pay for the same old same old. Use quick based solutions that not only make sense but they are fun and create bonding experiences.
One example of San Diego Therapy's quick change tool box is the minute you find yourself reacting to something "he did." PAUSE. Create a space for yourself in which you don't follow through with your conventional, traditional reactions whether they be of talk or behavior.
Take a breath. Bite your tongue. Purposely bring your habituated internal neural-network into different content areas. Change the channel of your brain. Switch it from the Action channel and/or the Scary movie channel to the Disney channel. Changing channels is an internally active choice. You will be watching a war zone if you leave it on history. . . Not like that channel will be playing romance anytime soon and if they do, it will most likely end in hemlock.
You don't have to change a thing other than the channel!!! By changing the channel, you change the timing in which you would manifest what you typically do. Depending on what (x) is, . . . .wait 10 minutes or 1 day to react or ask, meanwhile keeping yourself entertained on another station.
Don't even reminisce or imagine what you would want to get from your partner because that reinforces the conditioned thought that you are not getting it and it neurologically conditions the discrepancy between what you want and the reality. Learn to be happy with the reality and your reality will change. It's a paradox, I know.
Furthermore, it is important to change the internal relational channel when experiencing internal disappointment with "other," because if you don't, you will exude an energy current that will push him away even further.
You may notice after time has passed that (x) is no longer important to you, or you may notice that you actually get what you want due to the fact that the space was created "it" manifest without the energetic pressure on "him." It's social math.
The power is in your hands with your "relational remote". . . until you come into San Diego Therapy.
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